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15 November 2013

Are You Pampering Him At All?

'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh' Matthew 19:5' 





Hello everyone, how are you all doing? Suprised right lol well this blog is not all about fashion, and also had some suggestions from some of you my lovely readers to add something to it and I thought about it and decided to add this segment to the blog. So my dearies welcome to the first edition of 'Love Matters' where we would talk about love and relationship, marriage, kids and family, mind you I would really appreciate your wonderful comments and also contributions too.

I am not perfect far from it, when it comes to marriage I am still learning, I remember when I was still single I was always interested in marriage matters, I layed my hands on every material that had to do with marriage, digesting it thoroughly infact some of my friends then used to nickname me 'Dr Mrs Love' lol cos some of them come to me for relationship advice.

Are you pampering your man at all? Be it your husband or fiance. Yes men love pampering too don't think pampering is just for us women. Men want to know they are loved and cared for. They want to know they are your number 1. You want to pamper him more? Then pay attention to the following:

 
WAYS OF PAMPERING HIM

Respect: 
Do you have respect for your man? He deserves it, A man wants to know you would put him first above all else, he needs to know he has your attention when you are having a conversation. If you respect him you wont just invite someone to your home without telling him. You cannot love a man you don't respect.


Love: 
Am sure you say oh but I love him and he should tell you he does, how often do you tell him you love him? Let him know, let him feel, let him think you love him with all your heart. Not in words alone but also by your actions. You cant say I love you but yet not attentive to his needs. Show him love today.






Food: 
They say the way to a man's heart is through food and yes it is true, a man loves a woman who knows how to cook good food, yes its not as if they cant get food to eat in the restaurants but they want you to treat them with good food, they know its cooked with love, homely food with an extra touch. Learn new recipes, cook something different for him once in a while and serve his food. I mean my husband knows how to cook but he still wants me to do it sometimes cos he knows he would get something special. Yes I know we might be busy with our career and all that but our man deserves to be pampered with good food.



Sex: 
Yes I went there lol, I would say sex is a cement that glues marriage together trust me if there is no sexual intimacy between couples then such a marriage is in trouble. Know what turns him on remember men respond more to what they see while women responds emotionally or by what they feel. Don't wait for him to make the first move, initiate sex once in a while, create a sexophoric atmosphere now thats my word lol. Before he even comes back from work or his place of business send him sexy text messages to prepare him for whats coming later on. Captivate his heart, who says lovemaking is restricted to the bedroom alone, be adventurous (please not in front of your kids though lol).






Gifts:
Yes they love gifts too, it doesn't have to be his birthday or your wedding anniversary before you give him a gift no matter how small or big it is. He knows its the thought that counts.


What do you think my lovelies, I would love to read your own contributions too, tell me how do you pamper your man? Let me know your thoughts.





Thanks for stopping by.

xoxo



Esther
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15 comments

  1. This is a good one. The honeymoon will definately continue in our homes if we inbibe these points

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  2. Nice one babes.... Good advice... Women need to read more of this ...

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  3. Lets face it, love doesn't exist,......judge me but its the reality,people just pretend ,when things are going well, we deceive ourselves by thinking love is in the air,but when tragedy strikes.... real life begins.Reasons most homes are broken in Britain.

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    1. Who says love doesnt exist? Not judging you at all hmmm from your tone it sounds as if you have been hurt before, love does exists when you find or meet someone who loves you completely seriously its heaven. That is the reason why when you say you love someone you have to ask yourself will I be with this person through thick and thin? Is this for short term or long term. Homes break everyday not just in Britain love, you can mail me and we would talk egbudje@gmail.com. Thanks

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  4. I Love the segment already :). keep em coming dear. You very right about these various ways to show love, you know how it can be sometimes, life happens, pressure from work, kids, and everywhere makes us forget certain things we should be doing. No excuses lol! we continue to learn :). thanks for sharing dear.
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    1. Awww thanks so much sweetie, I really do appreciate your lovely comments. Yes we would continue to learn and its one day at a time. Thanks once again.

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  5. Thanks for the tips dear and like Ngozi said, love the segment already. Patiently waiting for your next topic :-D

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    1. Awww thanks darling am glad you like it.

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  6. Love issues are so delicate yet relevant for our survival. Great topic and all the points are key factors to a relevant relationship fredaidehen.blogspot.com

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    1. Yes love, Love makes the world go round. Thanks sweetie

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  7. Women pretend alot why?

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    1. Dear Anon, I dont understand what you mean? Please explain. Thanks

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